About Me
Laurika Arnoldi
As you have probably gathered from the title, this blog is all about me trying to get pregnant, but first a little story about me, Laurika Arnoldi (Lunaela).
It all started back in February 2004. After I had many flings and the occasional one-night-stand I met this amazing guy named Dave, I thought he is pretty nice and attractive and a little fun won’t hurt anyone, after a couple of months I realised this is not at all just a fling, I started to have very deep feelings for him and I started to keep my distance as I was not interested in anything serious. I was always too stubborn to admit to anyone how I felt as I was scared of being hurt.
In June 2004 he was in a serious car accident and was in hospital for about three months, I visited him in hospital, but not really sure of how he felt about me I tried not to show any feelings. After he came out of hospital we lost contact. I eventually realised maybe he just needs a little time to heal and did not want me around.
I battled to get over him so I decided to go to London, England on a working visa. I spent a couple of months there and came back, still not over him. I was home for a week when I visited friends and they told me that Dave was looking for me, they phoned him and within a half an hour I saw him for the first time in over a year, needless to say even with all his scars my heart did summersaults…
A month later we moved in together and on 12th May 2007 we got married. Like many other couples we thought to spend some time ‘alone’ together and enjoy married life.
In 2008 we discussed having a baby. I went off birth control in early 2009, then all the problems started, I had very bad cramps and pain when I had my periods, I went to the gynaecologist and explained all the problems that I am experiencing, he thought it would be best to do a laparoscopy as he was convinced that I have endometrioses, in May 2009 I went for this little procedure. Thinking that I would fall pregnant almost instantly after the operation, I was disappointed. In June 2009 I had to go in for an emergency laparoscopy and they had to remove a cyst, again I thought I would fall pregnant instantly… but nothing happened. The gynaecologist did all sorts of tests, thinking the problem is with me as Dave has two daughters from a previous marriage, they prescribed fertility medicines and gave us a ‘recipe’ to get pregnant, needless to say nothing worked it is now March 2011 and I am still not pregnant.
I am busy working through books, doing some research and learning some secrets. I will be posting on my blog, keeping everyone up to date with my progress and hopefully I can eventually say that I am pregnant. I will be discussing all positive and negative emotions while I am going through this process of trying to get pregnant. Please feel free to comment and maybe giving me and other ladies in the same predicament some support.
